Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Give in order to Receive - the Bryan Anderson story

One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help.

So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.

Even with the smile on his face, she looked worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe; he looked poor and hungry.

He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill which only fear can put in you.

He said, "I'm here to help you, ma'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson."

Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.

As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid.

Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Bryan never thought twice about being paid. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty, who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.

He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, "And think of me."

He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight.

A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair.

She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Bryan.

After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. The waitress wondered where the lady could be. Then she noticed something written on the napkin.

There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: "You don't owe me anything. I have been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you."

Under the napkin were four more $100.

Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day.

That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard....

She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, "Everything's going to be all right. I love you, Bryan Anderson."

Frying Pan

Two men went fishing. One was an experienced fisherman, the other wasn't. Every time the experienced fisherman caught a big fish, he put it in his ice chest to keep it fresh. Whenever the inexperienced fisherman caught a big fish, he threw it back.


The experienced fisherman watched this go on all day and finally got tired of seeing the man waste good fish. 'Why do you keep throwing back all the big fish you catch?' he asked.

The inexperienced fisherman replied, 'I only have a small frying pan..'

Sometimes, like that fisherman, we throwback the big plans, big dreams, big jobs, big opportunities that God gives us. Our faith is too small.

We laugh at that fisherman who didn't figure out that all he needed was a bigger frying pan, yet how ready are we to increase the size of our faith?

Whether it's a problem or a possibility, God will never give you anything bigger than you can handle. That means we can confidently walk into anything God brings our way.

Nothing is too big for God ....

Friday, September 6, 2013

I love you, Sweetheart!

There was a group of women gathered at a seminar on how to live in a loving relationship with your husband.

The women were asked, 'How many of you love your husbands?'

All the women raised their hands.

Then they were asked, 'When was the last time you told your husband you loved him?'
Some women answered today, some yesterday, some didn't remember..

The women were then told to take their cell phones and send the following text to their respective husband: I love you, sweetheart.
Then the women were told to exchange phones and read the responding text messages.

Here are some of the replies:

1. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick?

2. What now? Did you crash the car again?

3. I don't understand what you mean?

4. What did you do now? I won't forgive you this time!!!

5. ?!?

6. Don't beat about the bush, just tell me how much you need?

7. Am I dreaming? ???????

8. If you don't tell me who this message is actually for, you will die today...!!!

9. I asked you not to drink anymore!!

and the best one

10. Who is this?

God and Spider!!

During World War II, an US marine was separated from his unit on a Pacific island. The fighting had been intense, and in the smoke and the cross fire he had lost touch with his comrades.

Alone in the jungle, he could hear enemy soldiers coming in his direction. Scrambling for cover, he found his way up a high ridge to several small caves in the rock. Quickly he crawled inside one of the caves. Although safe for the moment, he realized that once the enemy soldiers looking for him swept up the ridge, they would quickly search all the caves and he would be killed.

As he waited, he prayed: "Lord, if it be your will, please protect me. Whatever your will though, I love you and trust you."

After praying, he lay quietly listening to the enemy begin to draw close. He thought, well, I guess the Lord isn't going to help me out of this one. Then he saw a spider begin to build a web over the front of his cave. As he watched, listening to the enemy searching for him all the while, the spider layered strand after strand of web across the opening of the cave.

"Hah!" he thought. "What I need is a brick wall and what the Lord has sent me is a spider web. God does have a sense of humor."

As the enemy drew closer he watched from the darkness of his hideout and could see them searching one cave after another. As they came to his, he got ready to make his last stand. To his amazement, however, after glancing in the direction of his cave, they moved on. Suddenly, he realized that with the spider web over the entrance, his cave looked as if no one had entered for quite a while.

"Lord, forgive me", prayed the young man. "I had forgotten that in you a spider's web is stronger than a brick wall."

We all face times of great trouble. When we do, it is so easy to forget the victories that God would work in our lives, sometimes in the most surprising ways.

Have an awesome day, and know that someone who thinks you're great has thought about you today.

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Wrong flowers...

A new business was opening and one of the owner's friends wanted to send him flowers for the occasion. They arrived at the new business site and the owner read the card, "Rest in Peace."

The owner was angry and called the florist to complain.

After he had told the florist of the obvious mistake and how angry he was, the florist replied, "Sir, I'm really sorry for the mistake, but rather than getting angry, you should imagine this: somewhere, there is a funeral taking place today, and they have flowers with a note saying, 'Congratulations on your new location!'"

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Gratitude...


Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.  It turns what we have into enough, and more.  It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity.  It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.  Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.

~Melody Beattie

Saturday, April 20, 2013

A SAD LOVE STORY


I recollected this story that I had read a long back... I was searching for the e-mail in my old e-mailbox, which I rarely use these days; and yes I got it, the e-mail dated 28 Feb 2007. 

A Sad Love Story telling us not to be afraid of expressing our Feelings. 

Hi.

I am Jo. I have a boyfriend who grew up with me. His name is Jin. I always thought of him as a friend until last year, when we went to a trip from a club. I found that I fell in love with him. Before that trip was over, I took a step and confessed my love for him. And soon, we became a pair of lovers, but we loved each other in different ways. I always concentrated on him only, but by his side, there were so many other girls. To me, he was the only one, but to him, may be I was just another girl...

"Jin, do you want to go watch a movie?" I asked. 
"I can't" 
"Why? You need to study at home?" I felt disappointment grabbing me. 
"No... I am going to meet a friend."

He was always like that. He met girls in front of me, like it was nothing. To him, I was just a girlfriend. The word 'love' only came out from my mouth. Since I knew him, I had never heard him say ‘I love you’ before. To us, there weren't any anniversaries at all. He didn't say anything from the first day and it continued till 100 days... 200 days. .. Everyday, before we say goodbye, he would just hand me a doll, everyday, without fail. I don’t know why... 

Then one day... 
Me: Um, Jin, I ... 

Jin: What...don’t drag, just say.. 
Me: I love you. 
Jin: ... ...you ...um, just take this doll and go home. 

That was how he ignored my ‘three words’ and handed me the doll. Then he disappeared, like he was running away. The dolls, I received from him everyday, filled my room, one by one. There were many...Then one day came, my 15th year old birthday. When I got up in the morning, I pictured a party with him, and stranded myself in my room, waiting for his call. But... lunch passed, dinner passed... and soon the sky was dark... he still didn't call. It was already tiring to look at the phone anymore. Then around 2 am in the morning, he suddenly called me and woke me from my sleep. He told me to come out of the house. Still, I felt joy and I ran out happily.


Me: Jin... 
Jin: Here... take this 
...Again, he handed me a little doll. 
Me: What’s this? 
Jin: I didn't give it to you yesterday, so I am giving it to you now. I’m going home now, bye. 
Me: Wait, wait! Do you know what today is? 
Jin: Today? Huh? 
I felt so sad, I thought he would remember my birthday. He turned around and walked away like nothing had happen. Then I shouted... “Wait...” 
Jin: You have something to say? 
Me: Tell me, tell me you love me... 
Jin: What?! 
Me: Tell me 
I put my pathetic self behind and clung on to him. But he just said simple cold words and left. 

“I don’t want to say... that I love someone, so easily; if you are desperate to hear it, then find someone else.” 

That was what he said. Then he ran off. My legs felt numb... and I collapsed to the ground. He didn't want to say it easily... How could he.... I felt that... Maybe he is not the right guy for me... 

After that day, I stranded myself at home crying, just crying. He didn't call me, although I was waiting. He just continued handing me a little doll every morning outside my house. That's how those dolls piled up in my room... everyday. 

After a month, I got myself together and went to school. But what made the pain resurface was that... I saw him on a street... with another girl... He had a smile on his face, one that he never showed me... as he touched the doll... I ran straight back home and looked at the dolls in my room, and tears fell... Why did he gave these to me...? Those dolls are probably picked out by some other girls... In a fit of anger, I threw the dolls around. Then suddenly, the phone rang. It was him. He told me to come out to the bus stop outside my house. I tried to calm myself down and walked to the bus stop. I kept reminding myself that I am going to forget him, that... it's going to end. Then he came into my sight, holding a big doll. 
Jin: Jo, I thought you were pissed, you really came? 

I couldn't help hating him, acting like nothing had happen and joking around. Soon, he held out the doll as usual... 

Me: I don’t need it. 
Jin: What... why... 
I grabbed the doll from his hands and threw it on the road. 

Me: I don’t need this doll, I don’t need it anymore!! I don’t want to see a person like you again! 

I spitted out all the words that were inside me. However, unlike other days, his eyes very shaking. 

"I'm sorry". He apologized in a tiny voice. He then walked over to the road to pick up the doll... 
Me: You stupid! Why are you picking up the doll?! Just throw it away!!! 
But he ignored me and just went to pick the doll. Then... 

Honk~ Honk~ 

With a loud honk, a big truck was heading towards him. 

“Jin! Move! Move away!” I shouted... But he didn't hear me, he squatted down and picked up the doll. 
“Jin, move!” HONK~!! “Boom!” That sound, so terrifying. 

That’s how he went away from me. That’s how he went away without even opening his eyes to say one word to me. 

After that day, I had to go through everyday with guiltiness and the sadness of losing him... And after spending two months like a crazy person... I took out the dolls. 

Those were the only gifts he left me since the day we started going out. I remembered the days I spent with him and started to count the days... when we were in love... 

“One...two... three...” That was how... I started to count the dolls... 
“Four hundred and eighty four... four hundred and eighty five...” 
It all ended with 485 dolls. 
I then started to cry again, with a doll in my arms. I hugged it tightly, then suddenly... 
“I love you~, I love you~” I dropped the dolls, shocked. 
“I....lo..ve. ..you??” I picked up the dolls and pressed its stomach. 



“I love you~ I love you~” It can't be! I pressed all the dolls' stomach as it piled on the side. 
“I love you~” 
“I love you~” 
“I love you~” 
Those words came out non-stop. I...love you... Why didn't I realize that....That his heart was always by my side, protecting me. Why didn't I realize that he loves me this much...? I took out the doll under the bed and pressed its stomach that was the last doll, the one that fell on the road. It had his blood stain on it. The voice came out, the on that I was missing so much... 

“Jo...Do you know what today is? We have loved each other for 486 days. Do you know what 486 is? I couldn't say I love you.... Um... since I was too shy... If you forgive me and take this doll, I will say that I love you... everyday... till I die... Jo... I love you...” 

The tears came flowing out of me. Why? Why? I asked god, why do I only know about all this now? He can’t be by my side, but he loved me until his last minute... 

For that... and for that reason... to me... it became courage... to live a beautiful life....

P.S.: If it did hurt anyone, then 'I am Sorry!'

Wisdom of the Mirror!!

"I am Looking at the Person who is Responsible for My Past,  for Where I am Today and for My Future!!"

Goodbye...


Goodbye...

You and I will meet again,
When we're least expecting it,
One day in some far off place,
I will recognise your face,
I won't say goodbye my friend...

Goodbyes are not forever...
Goodbyes are not the end...
They simply mean I'll miss you...
Until we meet again...

You and I will meet again...



Friday, March 29, 2013

CELINE DION - LET YOUR HEART DECIDE

I have been murmuring Celine Dion's songs for quite some days now.

I kinda missed her so much today that I thought of just write down the lyrics of one of my favourite songs of her.

I wish I could sing just like her... I like the singing style of this song very much.


Here's the vedio of the song:



LET YOUR HEART DECIDE

I understand that you've met someone,
with a perfect heart...

But you've been questioned by everyone,
so you're in the dark...

Can you choose to fall?
Should you risk it all?

How'm I gonna stop it if you wanna give it all to love,
when I'm on your side

And I understand you're the only one to know,
whether wrong or right

Let your heart decide (you're the only one)


Some may tell you don't take the risk;
it's a waste of time...
But if you think you'll find happiness,
baby take the dive...

It's unusual
But it's critical

How'm I gonna stop it if you wanna give it all to love,
when I'm on your side

And I understand you're the only one to know,
whether wrong or right

Let your heart decide (you're the only one)

Give it up... ... ...

How'm I gonna stop it if you wanna give it all to love,
when I'm on your side

And I understand you're the only one to know,
whether wrong or right

Let your heart decide (you're the only one)


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